Ricky Martin’s girlfriend of over 10 years, Rebecca De Alba, explained in a recent interview that she learned he was gay years after they broke up. She says that the relationship ended because of their busy schedules, and not his sexuality. She also debunked rumors that their relationship was a facade for the press. I am not sure what to make of all of this. If my ex came out of the closet, I’d probably rewind our terrible sex in my head and blame it all on him. At least she has that.